There are several secrets to a "Happy life" but during this time of "Thanks giving" I would like to share one of my favorites. 

"The easiest way to guarantee to be miserable is to make your life all about you." 

Think about it.  Think of all of those wealthy and famous celebrities.  They actually seem to fall into 2 categories:

"It's My Life": There are those Celebrities who make their lives all about them.  Without saying any names, you know who I mean.  The young (not so young and definitely old enough to know better) Celebrities who are always in trouble with the law, having problems with drugs and alcohol, entangled in shocking affairs, and other such scandals.  Not to say many others don't go through some of these same problems however; a lot of these issues often stem from focusing on what "I want... I feel ... I think I should have … I … I … I" and not considering those around you. 

"Living a Good Life": Now, think about the ones you don't hear about all the time.  It may take a minute - why, because you don't hear about them that much in the news.  That's because they are too busy not only taking care of themselves (friends and family) but giving back to others and simply living a good life.  They work hard and still take the time and use their resources to make a difference in the world around them.  It doesn’t matter if it’s helping struggling communities, raising awareness for social causes, volunteering their time or helping those who’ve been devastated by tragedy, hunger, or diseases with out expecting anything in return.  They don't do it for the press, to promote an upcoming movie or increased record sales - they just do it because "it's the right thing to do".  And what’s the result? ... A happy life!  Sometimes, making a small difference in someone else’s life can make a difference in how you see, think about, feel about, and live your own.